A community is a group of people who care about each other more than they should.
This quote is from a significant business book of 2000, The Cluetrain Manifesto: The End of Business as Usual. I’ve been reflecting on that quote and have come to like it on multiple levels. When you place it within the context of Christian community it becomes especially interesting.
Have you ever been part of a group of people where things have just clicked? You loved being together. You’d do anything for each other. You looked for excuses to spend time with each other, and when you were together the conversation flowed effortlessly. By all outward appearances you cared about each other more than you should – at least that’s what some were maybe thinking.
I believe this is the kind of community Jesus speaks of, and longs for us to experience. The Acts 2 kind of daily gatherings where people just did life with each other. From the outside looking in I imagine there were many people who thought they cared about each other more than they should. But that’s part of what happens when there’s a supernatural kind of connection between people. You can’t explain all of the reasons why you just love being together.
I’m not talking about some kind of exclusive group that keeps others out; that’s not Acts 2 (the Lord added to their number daily). I’m speaking of true community where people join together largely because of shared experience, shared purpose and goals. A community where God is really at the center and life is truly a shared experience. You can call it whatever you like: Small Group, Sunday School, Church, Affinity Group, Organic Church, Body of Christ, Community.
No huge point here, just a reminder that God flows through community; the body of Christ.
April 9, 2008 at 7:07 am
Great quote! Had not seen that one before. Nice summary of the kind of community we all long for…
April 9, 2008 at 8:46 am
That’s an awesome quote! I’ve got to share it with my leaders.
April 9, 2008 at 8:47 am
That’s an awesome quote! I’ve got to share it with my leaders.
April 9, 2008 at 8:52 am
Not sure why my comment posted twice…sorry about that!
April 9, 2008 at 3:49 pm
That makes me long for community. So what is holding me (us) back?
April 10, 2008 at 3:47 am
In a way, a Christian community is a group of people who care about each other less than they should because the should is so high!
Still, hopefully they care more than the world thinks they should…
April 10, 2008 at 6:44 am
Dave — I think this desire for community is in all of us. I’m convinced it’s a God thing and we’re not meant to live in isolation.
Bart — I think what holds us back sometimes is our own fear or insecurity. The great thing about real community is that those things are embraced along with everything else. Those are probably some of the things everyone else in the community feel as well.
Marc — You put an interesting twist on the quote, wouldn’t it be great to be part of a community so compelling that you could get beyond the lower levels of caring. That’s what I long for!
April 10, 2008 at 10:31 am
One of the church’s greatest challenges is doing this better than Starbucks does. Starbucks, when it is running well, cares about customers more than it should. That’s we keep coming back and paying what we used to pay for a whole breakfast just to get some coffee.
April 11, 2008 at 8:15 pm
Mark – Thanks for your thoughts on community. I just discovered your blog from a comment on one of my posts. I am looking forward to reading more of your thoughts. Let me know if you would like to get together for coffee some time.
April 16, 2008 at 8:00 am
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